How to find a husband via the Internet?
The hero of not my novel If someone from readers rubs hands from pleasure in anticipation of critical analysis of all possible and impossible cases of unsuccessful meetings with mismatched marginals, boors and roughs, - he is mistaken. You will not find anything like this, because representatives of the listed categories of men simply do not exist in our field of vision. You successfully eliminated them at the stage of written communication.
Agree, when searching for a husband via the Internet, you had a lot of opportunities to extend the period of correspondence for as long as necessary. If you have moved communication from the virtual plane to the real one, then you have decided to see firsthand whether it is as good as it seems to you. Also, you are probably already familiar with Dating services that allow you not only to correspond but also to see your interlocutor. In my opinion, this method is very good for avoiding such things as the difference between the person in the photo and him in real life. As one example, I can tell you this message oLive video chat & messenger, this is one of the huge number of similar programs. Believe me, we have more than enough deviations from what you personally consider the norm in meetings with well-off and decent-looking selected candidates. And it is these inconsistencies, discrepancies and deviations that are now the subject of consideration.
Everything described below represents your possible subjective reactions to objective reality. Let's start with the appearance... it is likely that there is nothing wrong with the appearance of your potential chosen one. For everyone else, but not for you. Moreover, this factor makes the most negative impression because you did not take it into account in any way. For example, he claimed that the average height and indicated in the questionnaire 171 cm, and when meeting the naked eye can be seen that there is a maximum of 169 cm of the candidate, and even then with a stretch. Only 2 cm! It would seem, a trifle. But it's fatal for you for some reason. Perhaps you are of the opinion that a person's height largely determines their character. And it is true that the Napoleonic complex has not been canceled. It is important, after all, on which of the components in this phrase you personally emphasize. If on the "complex", it becomes clear that you did not enroll in the ranks of its psychoanalysts. And if the fact that the owner of this complex is a kind of Napoleon, then maybe you are warmed by the idea that you are destined for the role of Josephine in life. Or maybe you don't like the fact that as a result of its growth, it looks like a toy? And it seems to you that all his clothes have just been bought in the youth section of "Children's world". In short, you look at a person and realize that you do not think of yourself next to him. And now the roar of a deafening finale thunders inside you, when in fact even the Overture has not yet sounded.